I don't know why I am wasting my time answering messages in IC. The men say they want to serve me, they want a relationship with me, but when it comes to the crunch they simply haven't got the balls to go through with it. They see me as a fantasy figure, they build all these nice scenarios in their heads and, when I remind them that I am just a normal human being with limits, constraints, problems, dreams and desires of my own, they are surprised and back out.
Why can't men read the text of an advert instead of acting on a visual stimulus? This is meant to be a feminine trait after all! (Women are meant to be guided by emotions whereas men are meant to be guided by logic.) It's so strange.
I knew the last effort was doomed from the start.
He asked me on the phone whether I'd insist that he be kept in a chastity device. I answered truthfully that this kind of activity does nothing for me so I was not interested in engaging in it. 'Oh I am so glad you said that, Mistress,' he replied, but I could tell that he was trying to hide his disappointment. Come on, get serious! How can I keep you in chastity when you live 2 hours away from me and something might happen that necessitates your quick release and anyway what is the point of you keeping a spare key for emergencies (e.g. frozen in an ice cube) where you could simply use it and restore it later?
Anyway, the guy was not honest to himself and me and let it continue for a while, feeding on his fantasies, until I sent him a message that I was ready to see him in person (via Skype) and gave him a list of his rights and obligations. That must have come as a shock to him... for a Mistress to tell him he had the right to change his mind, he had the right to his own time, he had the right to have his emotional, mental, physical, etc needs looked after. It is so in contrast with the man's fantasy about the cruel heartless bitch who uses him without consideration. LOL So he replied that he had changed his mind and I was not the right Mistress for him.
I felt relieved.
